“All you need, to overcome Anxiety, friction, panic and anger… Is having a sense of control… And you feel a sense of control when you have Choices…Choices come from internal resourcefulness…Which can be developed by constant practice of possibility thinking. Ask: What else can be done? Or Start from the end (As If it’s already done, now try to see HOW!)”
– Ashish Nagar NLP
There must be a fair balance in in between Challenges and Resourcefulness.
Rather I should say the way we perceive challenge and the way we perceive the choices about how we can respond to the challenge.
We feel powerful if we see options, if we see Resourcefulness in finding the choices in the way we can react to the challenge.
But when we don’t see much options, we feel powerless, limited, victimised..And a balance is necessary.
If you perceive situations ever challenging and if you feel you always have limited choices, you are going towards stress, anxiety, panic or confusion.
If the challenge is easy and each time you can handle it easily that will make you careless and will lead to boredom.
How to face a difficult challenge?
Well ask the above questions!
How about easy challenges?
Well, just find an innovative way to solve it!!
Grow forever, Decay Never!!